Though-out my many years of working with clients and lecturing I have constantly sought to simplify the healing process. It is well known that our thoughts and feelings influence of physical body and our behaviours.

Finding the six primary fears discussed by Napoleon Hill in the !6 Laws For Success helped me strip down the basic emotional phobias to six easy workable sets of options underpinning our negative behaviours.

Recently I recognised I was running a lot of negative programming, blaming people and events outside myself for a problems. I was over analysing the situation negatively. I began to ponder the idea that maybe the deeper issue was a feeling of being disempowered. When I considered this option it made sense. By blaming others and outside situations I was in fact, creating a bigger ball of negative energy because I was forgetting the Basics. Kevin Trudeau in his training speaks of the importance of Mastering the Basics. Nothing is more basic than our focus on feeling and believing we are somehow disempowered, or switching gears and up-levelling to a feeling of being empowered.

In my own situation I began to use a statement many people struggle to grasp. I started to Love feeling disempowered. The easiest way to explain this concept is that I was already feeling disempowered. That was the truth. Adding I Love to the thought process changes the energy over time. When done sincerely and with conviction the energy begins to change. It is a human tract to avoid uncomfortable feelings or emotions or conflicting thoughts. When we use the I love statement it allows our solution orientated brain to kick into gear because we have removed the barriers of lies, deceptions and the covering up of the uncomfortable truth.

We invest far too much time and energy covering up our limitations and false beliefs. Life becomes far more rewarding when we apply the blow torch of truth and reality to our weakness and in doing so, turn them into allies, not enemies.

After a couple of days of playing with the I love statement I could see where I was playing the victim, where I was conforming to the false beliefs that I was feeling Disempowered. From here I was a able to look on the situation with a smile and change my attitude and approach to the issues. Interestingly, those who I considered to be the problem were becoming part of the solution.

Many people will suggest we may be running a self sabotage. Firstly all self sabotage is a lack of forgiveness. Secondly all Self Sabotage programmes contain elements of victimhood, lack of true self value and a feeling of being disempowered.

Deal with the disempowerment and most of the emotional and mental drama and attachment will resolve themselves.

As KT so often points out, Master the Basics. Owning your feeling and beliefs in disempowerment is the road back to empowerment. 

The solution to life?s detours is always hiding in plan sight. Be honest with our hidden feelings and we can heal them, bringing a deeper level of love and compassion to our lives. Hurt people nearly always share their hurt. Confront our misguided beliefs, attitudes and feelings and turn your daemons into angels. In doing so we turn our pain into healing for ourselves and others.